South Node in the Tenth House

You have a very strong relationship to authority, both external and internalized. Goals and expectations rule your life, and you often seem to come up short. Or even if you do succeed, it doesn't feel that satisfying. So you soldier on, being strong and responsible. You expect the same from others. At work this may be appropriate, but your personal relationships suffer. You look down on weakness and failure as a character fault. You are tired, you wish you could just stay at home and relax, but there is always more work to do.

North Node in the Fourth House

You are beginning to discover yourself as a person, and the wondrous power of acceptance. You are who you are, and that's enough. You have needs, and you take the time to meet them. It's not self-indulgence; you've discovered that when you feel needy, you have less to give to others. Instead of expectations, you now offer caring and support. Your family is your highest priority, and they begin to relax and enjoy being with you. Early retirement never felt so good!

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